Children & Youth

16 Children & Youth Strategies for Resilience and Growth

Every day may present many opportunities to face challenges, set goals, and seek support for your future. Take responsibility for your growth and future by embracing these 16 practical strategies no matter your age.

These strategies can be reinforced by parents and older siblings to promote well-being and establish a strong home environment. Being there for your children and youth is essential to helping them through life.

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1. Be Loving

Learn to appreciate yourself and show kindness to parents and siblings through helpful actions.  

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2. Be Positive

Stay focused on hard work and the courage to try new things. A positive attitude builds resilience and confidence.

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3. Be Supportive

Build strong and reliable relationships with family and friends. Share your thoughts and listen to others.

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4. Be Present

Listen and respond to others respectfully. Stay focused on the present moment.

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5. Be Accountable

Understand expectations in the family, school, and community. Take accountability for my actions.

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6. Be Good to Myself

Maintain a healthy routine by getting enough rest, eating well, and staying active.

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7. Be Balanced

Recognize challenges and seek guidance when needed.

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8. Be Giving

Look for ways to help others and meaningfully contribute to your home and community.

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9. Be Active

Enjoy nature, take a walk, stretch, exercise, dance, or play sports. Take in the beauty that surrounds you.

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10. Be Responsible

Lead by example and take responsibility for your actions.

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11. Be Confident

Remind yourself of your strengths and the values you uphold.

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12. Be Focused

Stay organized to create opportunities for success. Practice quiet reflection and deep breathing to stay focused.

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13. Be Connected

Respect others and build strong connections with family and friends.

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14. Be a Problem Solver

Be proactive, solution oriented, and seek support 

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15. Be Fun

Create new, exciting, and joyful experiences.  

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16. Be Brave

Know that you are strong, courageous, and resilient.